The Cost of Burnout vs. The Cost of Relief: Why Investing in Yourself as a Foster or Adoptive Mom is Non-Negotiable

As a foster mama, you carry a weight that few truly understand—the sleepless nights worrying about your child’s emotional well-being, the endless advocacy to ensure they get the right support, and the deep emotional investment in their healing. You’re juggling doctor’s appointments, IEP meetings, sibling visits, birth parent relationships, and behaviors that other parents don’t […]

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When you become a foster or adoptive parent, you enter into a world that is filled with love, challenges, joy, and, at times, pain. It’s a journey that requires constant learning, compassion, and understanding as you help your child navigate their own emotions, identity, and relationship with their biological roots. As adoptive parents, we often […]

Navigating the Complexity of Adoption: A Lifelong Journey of Parenting

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Amidst the demands of appointments, paperwork, advocating for your child’s needs, and navigating the complexities of trauma-informed parenting, there’s one thing that often falls by the wayside: self-care. We hear the term “self-care” everywhere, but for many foster and adoptive moms, it feels like an unattainable luxury. After all, how can you make time for […]

The Truth About Self-Care for Foster and Adoptive Moms

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Winter brings a unique opportunity for families to slow down, cozy up, and create meaningful memories together. Between the chilly weather and shorter days, it’s the perfect season to focus on strengthening your bond with your children. Whether you’re a foster parent, adoptive parent, or biological parent, prioritizing connection can bring warmth to your home […]

5 Ways to Prioritize Connections With Your Kids This Winter

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  As a foster mom, you may find yourself navigating a mix of joy, heartbreak, hope, and uncertainty. Managing your emotions effectively is crucial not only for your well-being but also for providing the best care and support for the children in your home. Today, we’ll explore actionable strategies to help foster moms manage their […]

How Foster Mamas Can Manage Their Emotions as They Foster

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Reunification is at the heart of foster care, embodying the primary goal of bringing children back to a safe, stable, and loving home with their biological families. For foster moms, this process can be emotionally complex, filled with moments of joy, heartache, and profound learning. Whether you’re preparing for your first experience with reunification or […]

The Truth About Reunification: What Every Foster Mom Needs to Know

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  Between managing the emotions of your kids, navigating family gatherings, and trying to create a joyful atmosphere, the holidays can feel overwhelming. I’ve been there, and I know how heavy it can feel to balance the joy of the season with the complexities of foster care or adoption. The good news is that you […]

Handling the Holidays as a Foster or Adoptive Mom: Tips for Thriving, Not Just Surviving

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Foster parenting is  filled with moments of profound love and connection, but also days of intense emotional overwhelm. On those days, everything can feel a little heavier, and the pressures can seem insurmountable. But there are ways to manage the feelings of overwhelm and get through the hardest days with resilience and self-compassion. Here’s a […]

How to Manage Overwhelm on Hard Days: Practical Tips for Foster and Adoptive Moms

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  As a foster or adoptive mom, one of the most heart-wrenching yet meaningful moments comes when your child begins to ask about their story. Questions about their biological family, their past, and their identity can bring up a whirlwind of emotions—not only for them but for you as well. Here’s a guide to help […]

Navigating the ‘Tough Questions’: A Guide for Foster and Adoptive Moms

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What do we do when the future looks bleak for the child in our care or we are experiencing tremendous pain over them leaving our home?  How can we persevere and find the strength to keep going when it feels like each day is a cycle of sadness, disappointment, and heartache? Grief support geared toward […]

Good Grief: Helpful Tips for Grieving Foster Mamas

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