And why you were never meant to carry it alone. There’s a lot of talk about the logistics of foster care.The background checks. The home studies. The training hours.Even the bedtime routines and trauma-informed parenting techniques. But what no one really talks about — at least not out loud — is the emotional load that […]
What to Tell Your Kids Before Your First Foster Child Arrives
the kids
Does the Bible Talk About Fostering?
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Why Your Marriage Matters In Fostering
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How Can I Foster "Well?"
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And why I built Fearless Fostering to give it to you. When I got the call for our first placement, I wanted to feel ready.I had taken the classes. I had read the books. I had organized the bedroom.But when that little one crossed our threshold for the first time…I realized how much I wasn’t […]
There’s a moment in nearly every foster mama’s journey that hits harder than expected. It usually doesn’t happen during licensing classes or even during the first hours of welcoming a new child. It happens after a few days, when the adrenaline wears off and real life kicks in. When the child starts showing signs of […]
Foster parenting isn’t for the faint of heart. And I don’t say that to be dramatic — I say it because you already know it’s true. You’re carrying stories and systems and stressors that most people in your life can’t even imagine. The caseworkers change every other month.The visits don’t go as planned.The behaviors at […]
If you’re a foster mom, chances are you’ve found yourself in emotionally charged, high-stakes moments more than once—moments where your child is melting down, or a visit doesn’t go as planned, or something triggers your own trauma. These are the moments when your nervous system goes into overdrive, and every part of you wants to […]
Foster care isn’t static — it’s a system that’s constantly shifting based on politics, policy, funding, research, and public awareness. And in 2025, we’re already seeing some significant changes that every foster parent (especially moms on the frontlines) should be aware of. Whether you’re new to fostering or have had multiple placements, these updates matter. […]
Foster care is never linear. If you’re reading this, you probably already know that. You know the wild swings from hope to heartbreak, the late-night worries, the unspoken fears. You know how it can feel like everything is happening at once — or not at all. And in the thick of all of that? There’s […]
As foster parents, we know that the journey can be full of twists and turns. One of the biggest — and often most gut-wrenching — is when a biological parent reenters the picture. Whether it’s after months of absence or years of complicated history, this moment can bring up a tidal wave of emotions: fear, […]
If you’ve spent any time as a foster mama, you know how it feels to be swept up in the constant swirl of appointments, updates, emotions, and shifting plans. It can feel like the entire world is moving too fast — and like you’re the one who’s supposed to keep up with it all. In […]
Foster care is a journey that many of us step into with open hearts and a determination to make a difference. But the truth is, it’s also a journey that can take everything you’ve got—and then ask for more. I’ve seen it in my own life, and in the stories of so many foster and […]
