Dear Foster and Adoptive Mamas, As we stand on the threshold of a new year, it’s a profound moment to reflect not only on the challenges we’ve overcome but also on the intentional choices we’re making for our future selves. The daily labor of love, the vulnerability of attachment, and the unique journey of foster […]

In the hustle and bustle of the holiday season, it’s easy for foster and adoptive mamas to get caught up in the whirlwind of preparations, expectations, and extra responsibilities. Amidst the chaos, it’s crucial to take a step back and remember the true essence of the season and how precious the gift of time and […]

As foster and adoptive mamas, navigating the complex landscape of trauma is an integral part of our parenting journey. The term “trauma” carries weight, often evoking a sense of fear and concern for the well-being of our children. In this episode of the Fearless Fostering podast, we’re going to  delve into the clinical definition of […]

As foster mamas, we navigate the complex terrain of caregiving, often finding ourselves caught up in the whirlwind of daily tasks and responsibilities. The holiday season, with its festive chaos and endless to-do lists, can exacerbate the already demanding nature of our roles. However, what if this December became the month we collectively committed to […]

The holiday season is often portrayed as a time of joy, warmth, and togetherness. Yet balancing the excitement of the festivities with the uncertainties of the foster care journey requires resilience and coping strategies. Let’s explore practical ways to navigate the holiday season, finding joy amid the challenges. Understanding the Unique Challenges: Anticipatory Grief: Foster […]

Every foster and adoptive parent has a unique and powerful story to tell. Your journey of love, resilience, and compassion is an inspiration to others in the foster care and adoption community, whether you know it or not. Yet, many people might wonder how to share their experiences, offer support, and create valuable resources for […]

  Foster care is the Both/And. Always. In a world where we often look for clear-cut answers and tidy solutions, foster care stands as a testament to the messy, complex, and profoundly human nature of our lives. It’s a journey that defies easy categorization, and it demands that we hold contradictory truths in our hearts. […]

  Foster mamas are known for their unwavering dedication to the children in their care, but there’s a concerning trend that often goes unnoticed—the reluctance to seek or accept help. In this blog post, we’ll explore why many foster mamas choose to muddle through on their own, the detrimental effects it can have on their […]

Becoming a foster or adoptive parent is a journey filled with love, hope, and challenges. It’s a path that leads to beautiful moments and fulfilling relationships, but it can also bring about complex emotions and uncertainties. In this blog post, we’ll explore the emotional rollercoaster that foster and adoptive mamas often experience and provide guidance […]

Being a foster mom comes with its unique challenges, and one of them is helping children navigate the emotional roller coaster that accompanies inconsistent visits with their biological family. These visits, while crucial for maintaining connections, can also lead to increased emotions and behaviors in kids. In this blog post, we’ll explore practical strategies and […]