One important consideration that foster and adoptive moms face is the decision to bring a child into their family outside of birth order. This means that the new addition may be older than existing biological or adopted siblings. In this blog post, we’ll explore some key insights and considerations for foster and adoptive moms who […]

Being a foster mama is a unique and rewarding experience, but it also comes with its own set of challenges. The ups and downs of foster care can be overwhelming at times, leaving us feeling isolated and unsure of where to turn for support. That’s why I am thrilled to introduce you to the Fearless […]

On July 11th of last year, my husband and I embarked on a trip to California to celebrate our 40th birthdays. It was a long-awaited vacation that we had meticulously planned for years. We had taken care of all the necessary foster care arrangements, informing our caseworker and support worker well in advance and receiving […]

Foster parenting is a unique and rewarding journey that comes with its own set of challenges and triumphs. It’s a path filled with love, growth, and the opportunity to make a lasting impact on the lives of vulnerable children and their families. While every foster parent’s experience is different, one thing remains constant – the […]

Becoming a foster parent is a remarkable journey that involves providing love, care, and support to vulnerable children. As a foster parent, your role is crucial in shaping the lives of these children and helping them overcome the challenges they face. One of the key factors that can enhance your ability to be an effective […]

If you’re reading this post, you likely already know that he journey of foster care is not without its challenges. One such hurdle that can be particularly stressful for foster parents is navigating the court system. Court proceedings can be overwhelming, emotionally draining, and filled with uncertainty. In this post, I’ll share some reasons why […]

  In foster care, we don’t know what we don’t know…but when we know better, we can do better. Today I’m sharing four things I wish I would have done differently from the get-go, but now I will preach these all day, errrry day to the foster mamas I serve! Let me know which one […]

  I’m here to tell you the truth, and nothing but the truth, foster mama (or prospective foster mama).  I firmly believe that when we talk abut ALL of foster care (the good, the bad, and yes, even the ugly), we are better preparing prospective foster parents for the path ahead.  As you read through […]

How to know if foster care is right for your family Someone recently asked me: “What are the pros and cons of foster care?” As a foster mama myself, I loved the question, but even more than that, I loved the question beneath their question, which was: “How do I know if foster care is […]

  Lately, I’ve been feeling a tug on my heart to speak to an audience very near and dear to me – foster mamas.  Partially because I am one, but also because, as a therapist who deals primarily with anxiety, I want to use what I know to help other foster parents deal with the […]